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El autodominio no es la ausencia de emoción
Esta semana comencé una experiencia de coaching de siete semanas en Inteligencia Positiva, desarrollada por Shirzad Chamine. Nuestra primera lección exploró el autodominio, el piloto automático de la mente, las prácticas de conciencia sensorial y los patrones capaces de perjudicar nuestro bienestar, desempeño y relaciones. Aunque el sistema presentó un lenguaje nuevo, muchas de sus ideas fundamentales me resultaron familiares. Reconocí conexiones con las enseñanzas bíblicas,
Lawrence Sturdivant Jr.
13 hours ago3 min read


Self-Command Is Not the Absence of Emotion
This week, I began a seven-week Positive Intelligence coaching experience developed by Shirzad Chamine. Our opening lesson examined self-command, mental autopilot, sensory-awareness practices, and the patterns that can undermine our well-being, performance, and relationships. Although the framework introduced new language, many of its foundational ideas felt familiar. I recognized connections to biblical teachings, Taoism, Qigong, Tai Chi, lessons I received from Shaman Derek
Lawrence Sturdivant Jr.
13 hours ago3 min read


How Movement Can Restore Honesty in Our Lives
Honesty often feels like a fragile quality, easily lost amid distractions, stress, and self-deception. Yet, there is a simple, powerful way to reconnect with truth: movement. Moving our bodies can clear mental fog, reveal hidden feelings, and bring us back to a genuine sense of self. This post explores how movement restores honesty and offers practical ways to bring more authentic living into daily life. Walking barefoot on a forest trail to reconnect with inner truth Movemen
Lawrence Sturdivant Jr.
6 days ago3 min read


The Transformative Power of Patience in Building Trust
Patience is often seen as a simple virtue, but it holds a deeper meaning when viewed through the lens of trust. The idea that patience is regulated trust captures how waiting calmly reflects a belief in positive outcomes and reliability. This connection between patience and trust shapes how we interact with others and navigate challenges in life. Understanding this relationship can transform how we build and maintain trust in personal relationships, workplaces, and communitie
Lawrence Sturdivant Jr.
Jul 133 min read


Embracing Joy: Why You Don't Need Permission to Celebrate Happiness
Joy is a powerful feeling that often gets overlooked or postponed. Many people hesitate to fully embrace happiness because they think they need approval or the "right" moment. The truth is, joy does not need permission. It is a natural part of life that anyone can welcome at any time. This post explores why you should celebrate happiness freely and how doing so can enrich your life. A peaceful garden bench inviting quiet moments of joy Why People Hold Back from Joy Many hold
Lawrence Sturdivant Jr.
Jul 73 min read


Freedom Begins With Consent
Celebrating New Releases, New Milestones, and the Courage to Choose There are moments in life when the calendar aligns with the journey. This is one of those moments. As America celebrates Independence Day—a reminder of freedom, courage, and the pursuit of something greater—I find myself celebrating a different, yet deeply connected, kind of freedom. The freedom to choose. This week marks the release of two projects that have been growing quietly for months. 📖 Consent: Permi
Lawrence Sturdivant Jr.
Jun 293 min read


🎶 NOW AVAILABLE EVERYWHERE 🎶
🎶 NOW AVAILABLE EVERYWHERE 🎶 Stand Tall, Papáby Laurion-Asahn Today, I'm proud to share a song dedicated to the fathers, dads, stepfathers, mentors, coaches, grandfathers, uncles, and positive male influences who help shape lives every day. Stand Tall, Papá is a reminder that our children often learn more from what we do than what we say. They watch our actions. They study our character. They inherit our examples. This song celebrates the men who show up, stay present, lead
Lawrence Sturdivant Jr.
Jun 241 min read


Navigating Grief as a Journey of Love and Self-Discovery
Grief often feels like a heavy, uncharted path that isolates us from the world. Yet, it is also a profound expression of love, a reflection of the bonds we hold dear. As one poignant quote from Visions of Self by Lawrence states, "Grief is love with nowhere to go." This idea captures the essence of grief not as an end, but as a continuation of love in a new form. Understanding grief this way can transform the experience from one of despair to one of growth and self-discovery.
Lawrence Sturdivant Jr.
Jun 223 min read


To every father who shows up with purpose: We see you. We value you. We honor you. Happy Father's Day 2026 👑
Happy Father's Day 2026 👑 To every father, father figure, mentor, and man who chooses to show up with purpose: We often hear that being a father isn't easy and that fathers can be underappreciated. While that may be true in some eyes, today I hope fathers see their own value. Your presence matters. Your sacrifices matter. Your leadership matters. May you be surrounded by other fathers who support you, sharpen you, encourage you, and positively challenge you on your journey.
Lawrence Sturdivant Jr.
Jun 211 min read


Juneteenth 2026
Juneteenth reminds us that freedom isn't just a moment in history-it's a mindset we embody every day. In life, we all face tests and challenges. Some are difficult. Some are unexpected. Some are necessary. But every test is an invitation to grow. Every challenge is an opportunity to become more. When we rise, we release old versions of ourselves and step into our highest potential. May Juneteenth serve more than a reflection of what was, but a bold declaration of the wonderfu
Lawrence Sturdivant Jr.
Jun 191 min read


The Lasting Impact of Setting Boundaries for Personal Value and Desire
Setting boundaries is often misunderstood as a way to keep others at a distance. In reality, boundaries preserve desire and protect what matters most to you. When you clearly define your limits, you create space for healthy relationships, personal growth, and sustained motivation. This post explores how boundaries shape your life and why they have a lasting impact on your sense of value and desire. A closed wooden door representing personal boundaries Why Boundaries Matter Bo
Lawrence Sturdivant Jr.
Jun 152 min read


The Power of Repair Over Perfection in Personal Growth
Growth often feels like a race toward perfection. We want flawless results, seamless progress, and zero mistakes. Yet, this chase can trap us in frustration and self-doubt. Repair, the act of fixing what is broken or flawed, holds more power than perfection in shaping who we become. Repair embraces imperfection, encourages resilience, and fuels lasting personal growth. Repair is not just about fixing things; it is a mindset that values progress over flawlessness. This post ex
Lawrence Sturdivant Jr.
Jun 83 min read


Harnessing the Power of No for Healthy Relationships Friendships and Career Growth
Saying no can feel uncomfortable. Many people worry it will hurt others’ feelings or damage opportunities. Yet, learning to say no clearly and confidently is one of the most valuable skills for protecting your time, energy, and well-being. Whether in relationships, friendships, or your career, the power of no helps you set boundaries, build respect, and focus on what truly matters. Setting boundaries by closing a door to personal space Why Saying No Matters in Relationships I
Lawrence Sturdivant Jr.
Jun 13 min read


NEW PODCAST SCHEDULE
Beginning this week, new episodes will now release: 🎙️ Tuesdays at 9AM EST 🎙️ Sundays at 10AM EST This Sunday’s featured episode:🌹 Here’s Your Flowers — Honoring the men who planted seeds so we can grow. A reflective conversation dedicated to fathers, mentors, leaders, and the men whose guidance, sacrifices, wisdom, and love continue to impact generations. This promo video also includes a preview of my debut track:🎶 The Man (My Dad)A song celebrating fathers. Official rel
Lawrence Sturdivant Jr.
May 271 min read


Honoring Sacrifice: Memorial Day Reflections on Those Who Served
Memorial Day stands as a solemn reminder of the ultimate sacrifice made by U.S. military personnel who died while serving their country. It is a day dedicated to honoring their memory and reflecting on the profound cost of freedom. Each year, Americans pause to remember these heroes, ensuring their stories and sacrifices are never forgotten. A folded American flag symbolizing honor and remembrance on Memorial Day The Origins of Memorial Day Memorial Day began after the Civil
Lawrence Sturdivant Jr.
May 253 min read


What Your Desires Reveal About Your True Self
Desires are more than fleeting wishes or simple wants. They offer a window into who we truly are beneath the surface. What you desire says much about your values, fears, and the parts of yourself you nurture or neglect. Understanding this connection can help you live more authentically and make choices that align with your real self. This week on my podcast, we explore how desires shape identity and what they reveal about your inner world. Here, you will find a deeper look in
Lawrence Sturdivant Jr.
May 183 min read


Episode 4:🎙️ Accountability & Male Growth
Episode 4:🎙️ Accountability & Male Growth What does real growth require from men today? This episode explores accountability beyond performative language—diving into emotional maturity, self-awareness, communication, discipline, healing, leadership, and relationship dynamics. This is not about perfection. It’s about ownership, reflection, and evolution. Season 2 continues to push deeper into the conversations that challenge us to grow intentionally. Watch now and join the di
Lawrence Sturdivant Jr.
May 141 min read


The Power of Practice in Cultivating Skills for Success
Ever wonder why some people seem to master skills effortlessly while others struggle? The secret is simple: practice. The phrase "What you practice grows roots" isn’t just a catchy saying; it’s a truth that shapes how we learn and grow. When you practice something regularly, it becomes part of you, like a plant sending roots deep into the soil. This blog post explores how practice helps cultivate skills that lead to success, with a sprinkle of humor to keep things lively. Pra
Lawrence Sturdivant Jr.
May 112 min read


The Transformative Power of Energy in Communication
Energy is the invisible force that shapes every interaction. Before a single word is spoken, energy sets the tone, influences perception, and determines how messages are received. Understanding this power can transform the way we connect with others, making communication more effective and meaningful. Energy as a source of illumination and focus How Energy Shapes Communication Energy is the foundation of all communication. It is the feeling or vibe that a person projects, oft
Lawrence Sturdivant Jr.
May 43 min read


Embracing the Feminine: How Safety Influences Women's Empowerment
Feeling safe is a fundamental need that shapes how women express their feminine energy and build confidence. When safety is present, women can explore their strengths, creativity, and leadership without fear. This connection between safety and the feminine is often overlooked but plays a crucial role in personal growth and empowerment. A serene garden bathed in gentle sunlight, symbolizing safety and calmness Understanding the Link Between Safety and the Feminine The feminine
Lawrence Sturdivant Jr.
Apr 293 min read
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