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Honoring Sacrifice: Memorial Day Reflections on Those Who Served
Memorial Day stands as a solemn reminder of the ultimate sacrifice made by U.S. military personnel who died while serving their country. It is a day dedicated to honoring their memory and reflecting on the profound cost of freedom. Each year, Americans pause to remember these heroes, ensuring their stories and sacrifices are never forgotten. A folded American flag symbolizing honor and remembrance on Memorial Day The Origins of Memorial Day Memorial Day began after the Civil
Lawrence Sturdivant Jr.
3 hours ago3 min read
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What Your Desires Reveal About Your True Self
Desires are more than fleeting wishes or simple wants. They offer a window into who we truly are beneath the surface. What you desire says much about your values, fears, and the parts of yourself you nurture or neglect. Understanding this connection can help you live more authentically and make choices that align with your real self. This week on my podcast, we explore how desires shape identity and what they reveal about your inner world. Here, you will find a deeper look in
Lawrence Sturdivant Jr.
May 183 min read
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Episode 4:🎙️ Accountability & Male Growth
Episode 4:🎙️ Accountability & Male Growth What does real growth require from men today? This episode explores accountability beyond performative language—diving into emotional maturity, self-awareness, communication, discipline, healing, leadership, and relationship dynamics. This is not about perfection. It’s about ownership, reflection, and evolution. Season 2 continues to push deeper into the conversations that challenge us to grow intentionally. Watch now and join the di
Lawrence Sturdivant Jr.
May 141 min read
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The Power of Practice in Cultivating Skills for Success
Ever wonder why some people seem to master skills effortlessly while others struggle? The secret is simple: practice. The phrase "What you practice grows roots" isn’t just a catchy saying; it’s a truth that shapes how we learn and grow. When you practice something regularly, it becomes part of you, like a plant sending roots deep into the soil. This blog post explores how practice helps cultivate skills that lead to success, with a sprinkle of humor to keep things lively. Pra
Lawrence Sturdivant Jr.
May 112 min read
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The Transformative Power of Energy in Communication
Energy is the invisible force that shapes every interaction. Before a single word is spoken, energy sets the tone, influences perception, and determines how messages are received. Understanding this power can transform the way we connect with others, making communication more effective and meaningful. Energy as a source of illumination and focus How Energy Shapes Communication Energy is the foundation of all communication. It is the feeling or vibe that a person projects, oft
Lawrence Sturdivant Jr.
May 43 min read
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Embracing the Feminine: How Safety Influences Women's Empowerment
Feeling safe is a fundamental need that shapes how women express their feminine energy and build confidence. When safety is present, women can explore their strengths, creativity, and leadership without fear. This connection between safety and the feminine is often overlooked but plays a crucial role in personal growth and empowerment. A serene garden bathed in gentle sunlight, symbolizing safety and calmness Understanding the Link Between Safety and the Feminine The feminine
Lawrence Sturdivant Jr.
Apr 293 min read
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Saturday wasn’t just a book event...
It was alignment in real time. I had the opportunity to be part of the New Britain Local Author Event—front and center, in conversation, in connection, in presence. Shared space with powerful authors including Avi Ornstein and internationally recognized author E.S. McMillan. Real conversations. Real energy. Real perspective. Moments like this reinforce something I stand on: Clarity creates connection.Presence creates opportunity. From signing copies of LAWRENCE: Visions of Se
Lawrence Sturdivant Jr.
Apr 271 min read
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Featured on Enlightened Empowered Evolved Podcast — Sovereign Crowns
I recently had the honor of being a guest on the Enlightened Empowered Evolved Podcast with Bryon “Loot” Smith for a powerful conversation titled “Sovereign Crowns.” This dialogue was rooted in truth, presence, and personal elevation. We explored what it means to step fully into your identity, communicate with clarity, and lead your life with intention. I also had the opportunity to share deeper insight into my work — including my books, workshops, and consulting approach — a
Lawrence Sturdivant Jr.
Apr 231 min read
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“Access: A Sound Memoir” is more than a collection of tracks—it’s a journey through sound, reflection, and personal alignment.
Each piece is designed to be felt, not just heard. If you’re in a season of elevation, clarity, and intentional living… this is for you. Listen now:https://laurion-asahn.bandcamp.com/album/access-a-sound-memoir
Lawrence Sturdivant Jr.
Apr 221 min read
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4.18.26 - A Day I Won't Forget
Grateful for a successful book signing filled with meaningful connections, real conversations, and genuine love from the community. Moments like this remind me why I do the work. Big thank you to Worthwhile Reads and their incredible staff for creating such a welcoming space. Truly a gem for anyone looking to discover some amazing books (I couldn’t help myself—I left with 4). This video is a glimpse into the experience—capturing the energy, the people, and the intention behin
Lawrence Sturdivant Jr.
Apr 201 min read
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Exploring Masculinity as a Journey of Containment and Empowerment
Masculinity often gets framed as a display of force or dominance. Yet, a deeper understanding reveals that true masculinity is about containment , not force. This perspective shifts the focus from outward power to inner strength, from control over others to mastery of oneself. Exploring masculinity as a journey of containment and empowerment opens new paths for personal growth and meaningful connection. A man practicing calm reflection by a lake at sunset Calm reflection by a
Lawrence Sturdivant Jr.
Apr 153 min read
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ACCESS — A Sound Memoir (Now Live)
20 tracks. One lived journey through capacity, love, boundaries, truth, and becoming. ACCESS is a Sound Memoir by Laurion-Asahn—an extension of my written work, now expressed through sound. This 20-track project explores: Capacity and self-awareness Love and misalignment Boundaries and truth Timing, acceptance, and transformation Each record is intentional. Each moment is lived.This is not just music—it’s reflection, conversation, and elevation. New for supporters: With every
Lawrence Sturdivant Jr.
Apr 131 min read
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Harnessing Leadership Through Emotional Regulation and Mindfulness Practices
Leadership is often seen as a skill tied to strategy, decision-making, or communication. Yet, one of the most powerful aspects of leadership is emotional regulation in motion. Leaders who master their emotions create a steady presence that inspires trust, clarity, and resilience in their teams. This post explores how emotional regulation and mindfulness practices build stronger leadership and why being present matters more than ever. Why Emotional Regulation Is Essential for
Lawrence Sturdivant Jr.
Apr 73 min read
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Expanding into more communities this season
I’m currently building partnerships with organizations like the YMCA and YWCA to offer Communication & Self-Advocacy Workshops for: • Youth • Adults • Families • Community groups Because one thing I’ve seen across every space: People don’t struggle with having needs…They struggle with expressing them clearly. These workshops focus on: ✔️ Communication skills ✔️ Confidence ✔️ Navigating misunderstandings ✔️ Real-life application As I grow this work, I’m also learning the timi
Lawrence Sturdivant Jr.
Apr 41 min read
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This week, I ...
This week, I completed Tetris Effect: Connected . What I initially approached as a simple act of play became something far more revealing—an exercise in presence, adaptation, and self-observation. The kind of experience that meets you where you are, then quietly invites you deeper. I scored a C. And for a moment, I allowed that letter to sit with me. Not as a judgment, but as information. A reflection point. An offering. Because the truth is, what I encountered throughout the
Lawrence Sturdivant Jr.
Apr 32 min read
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The Timeless Nature of Truth Reflected in Lawrence's Memoir
Truth often feels like something urgent, a fact to be uncovered quickly or a secret to be revealed before it slips away. Yet, in Lawrence’s memoir Visions of Self , a profound insight emerges: truth does not need urgency . This idea challenges how we approach truth in our daily lives and invites us to reconsider the pace and pressure we place on discovering or accepting it. Understanding Truth Beyond Urgency In a world that moves fast, we often treat truth as something fleeti
Lawrence Sturdivant Jr.
Mar 313 min read
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Sound Memoir Q2 2026
In Q2 2026, I’ll be releasing something deeply personal: ACCESS — a Sound Memoir. A continuation of my journey, expressed through 22 original tracks — all written by me (Laurion-Asahn). This project lives at the intersection of reflection, expression, and sound. As a preview, I’m sharing a bonus track:“I’m Good” https://laurion-asahn.bandcamp.com/track/im-good-an-access-prelude I’d value your listen — and your perspective. Let me know if it resonates. Also, a note to those w
Lawrence Sturdivant Jr.
Mar 251 min read
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Harnessing the Power of Humor to Enhance Your Presence and Connection
Laughter often reveals more than just amusement; it carries truth in a way that feels natural and genuine. This insight, inspired by Sam, The Smart Guy, highlights how humor can deepen our presence and strengthen connections with others. Understanding how to use humor effectively can transform everyday interactions into meaningful experiences. Why Humor Matters in Presence Humor is a powerful tool for creating presence. When you use humor, you invite others to share a moment
Lawrence Sturdivant Jr.
Mar 233 min read
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Leadership teams:
Are you planning a spring or summer offsite? One of the biggest challenges I see isn’t a lack of ideas…It’s misalignment in communication. Teams leave energized — but unclear.Motivated — but not moving together. I’m currently booking a few Leadership Communication Workshops focused on helping teams • Communicate clearly • Align priorities • Reduce misunderstandings • Execute with confidence If you — or someone in your network — is planning an offsite and wants their team tru
Lawrence Sturdivant Jr.
Mar 201 min read
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Understanding the Importance of Internal Consent in Relationships
Consent is often discussed as an external agreement between partners, but it begins much deeper—within ourselves. Internal consent forms the foundation of healthy, respectful relationships. Without it, external consent can feel hollow or pressured. This post explores why internal consent matters, how to recognize it, and ways to cultivate it for stronger connections. Personal reflection through journaling What Internal Consent Means Internal consent is the personal, emotional
Lawrence Sturdivant Jr.
Mar 173 min read
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